busy.busy

everyone is busy w their own matters.. some are busy w work, some busy w training, some busy w other commitments.. everyone is busy for a reason.. it could be for their kids, partner, family or even e community.. sadly, that's how people ard feel neglected..

parents r busy w work to provide a better life for their descendants.. but during e journey of busy worklife, e kids are neglected.. left to play on their own / maid.. wat happened to e family time? some would make up via e weekends n bring their kiddos out for a day of fun.. e make up over e weekends for lost time during e weekdays perk e kiddos up n lets them feel loved after a week's of neglection..

being understanding towards these busy people is an easy thing to do.. however, these busy people muz understand that they probably neglected some of their loved ones during e course of busy-ness.. n if ever e neglected ones voice out, they r deemed s not understanding enough.. well, juz hw much is enough? e neglected ones voiced out coz they miss these busy people, miss e times spent together.. simple s that, no hidden agenda..

it would make e neglected one's beam from cheek to cheek when these people pick up e phone and make arrangements for a meet-up or to bring them out (juz like hw busy parents would try n make up for lost time to their kids).. yeah, some may say that e neglected ones can try to make a date with these busy bees but what's e point of making a date and e busy bee seemed 'forced' n eventually, displayed a black face?

a simple arrangement by e busy bee to catch a movie will make e other party smile coz it sends a silent message that he / she is not forgotten.. or even a 'hey! i'll bring u to a place for dinner!'.. u know? some kinda secrecy n surprises add to e flame..

life is a routine n dull but we inject colour n life to it so that e energy n flame keeps burning..

miss.u