girls vs guys

was chatting w ms shareen e other day n i picked this statement fr her (w a l'll amendments 'coz i forgot her exact words, hee~)..

ultimately, u love each other n haf e best interests for our partners. e reason y we tell our partners certain things was to let him / her know n if it can be changed, why nt change it n make things better? if it can't b changed, raise it up..

it juz suddenly hit me that gers r always being misunderstood s naggy, sensitive or even making a mountain outta molehill.. y e misunderstanding? prob due to e nature of e two genders - think men r from mars n women r from venus.. kekeke~

there r many differences between gers n guys..
gers - led by e heart (object may ignite something else)
vs
guys - led by e brain (an object is an object)

gers - complicated beings (they love surprises to feel loved!)
vs
guys - simple beings (they just love u.)

gers - loves to talk (sees this s a way to express)
vs
guys - dun quite like e talking part (sees this s an ego killer)

n so it goes on..

so many differences.. hw then does a couple grow closer despite e many differences?

it's abt e understanding n accepting e other half for e unique character that they have..
like wat ms shareen mentioned, when u listen to stories of other couples, u end up appreciating ur other half more, sometimes even do some soul-searching n at e end of e day, u feel normal again..

i guess, to be able to walk a longer path together, it takes alot of time, effort n understanding from both ends.. 'coz at e end of e day, it's abt GROWING w that someone special..