H.U.G

Here with yoU toGether.. That's how I feel whenever someone gives me hug.. It's such a simple, simple gesture but it can really do wonders..

It provides warmth..
It says a thousand words..
It allows one to feel loved..
It gives a sense of security..

Am really amazed at how much a simple hug can do.. Thinking back at my previous relationship, many a times I just needed that hug to tell me things are alright.. Never did I get that.. It struck me.. Was it that difficult to provide your loved ones a hug? Was it so difficult to make me feel loved with that lifting of hands?

I used to feel squirmish when my mum wanted to hug me when she was around.. I still remember there was once she was at the living room, watching tv.. I was walking to the kitchen when she said, "Come, Mummy 'bao bao'." I was like, "What? Mum, I'm 24 already lor!" but still I went over to her and she just gave me this HUG that was so filled with warmth and love..

That was the last hug my mum could ever provide me as after that, she fell sick.. The last hug I gave her was when she has gone, lying motionless on e bed of Dover Park Hospice on 2nd October about 1am or so..

I guess everyone will need a hug at one point or another.. Even when my mum has passed on, I believe my hug told her that I love her and will definitely miss her presence.. Dunno why I'm talking about hugs now but I guess I kinda miss a really good hug.. But no fear! I still have my bolster and my cuddly wuddly cushions to hug.. Hahahaha!!!